Book of Memories for Joy Merkley

Condolence From Lorraine Porter

Wed, 18 Mar 2015 09:52:31 EDT

I never drive by your house without thinking of my friend and her smile and her hugs! I do miss her very much. I think of you all too on those drives, how much you must miss her vibrant energy. Hugs to you all, Lorraine and Myron

Condolence From Stephanie and Jim Forrester

Mon, 07 Apr 2014 08:38:48 EDT

Dear Leonard, Nicole, Dwight and Derek and your families Please accept our most heartfelt condolences at this difficult time; losing Joy at a young age must be very hard. Even though we left Westport 24 years ago, we remember her always smiling: she was well named and I am sure much loved by her friends and family. Stephanie and Jim Forrester

Condolence From Barry and Peri McQuay

Sun, 06 Apr 2014 16:44:00 EDT

Dear Leonard and Family, We were so sorry to learn of Joy's death. She was such a bright, warm, brave and thoughtful presence. We know how she delighted in all of you and wish you comfort after this big loss.

Condolence From Gail Lee

Thu, 03 Apr 2014 19:05:26 EDT

Dear Leonard and faimily, we were so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife and mother. Such a special lady--she always kept us smiling. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Robert and Gail

Condolence From Tanya Willis-MacKinnon

Thu, 03 Apr 2014 10:37:11 EDT

To Leonard, Nicole, Dwight and Derek. I am so sorry to hear of Joy's passing. I have many great memories of going to school with Nicole at Rideau Vista and many years with Joy as our leader in Brownies and Guides. May you all find comfort in the beautiful memories you shared as a family and knowing that Joy has left lasting memories for everyone she knew. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. xo

Memorial Candle lit by Debbie Lipcsei

Sat, 29 Mar 2014 16:33:23 EDT

Debbie & Ryan Lipcsei

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Sat, 29 Mar 2014 15:41:08 EDT

Story shared: Making Rice Krispie Squares

Sat, 29 Mar 2014 15:39:03 EDT

During our fundraising campaign for the Rideau Vista playground, Joy and I with Nick and Austin would make rice krispie squares every Thursday to sell at lunch time. One particular day, the boys melted too many marshmellows when adding the rice krispies. The boys couldn't get the cereal mixed together properly, so asked for Joy's help. Joy had to keep adding more cereal to the melted marshmellows to get the mixture even. The more cereal Joy added, the stickier the mess she got into. The boys couldn't stop laughing at Joy, myself included - not to mention Joy's laughter. We ended up with a very large batch of rice krispie squares that day to sell. The quick thinking teacher Joy was, boys quickly learned 2 big lessons that day: pay attention when cooking in the kitchen & you boys made the big mess, so you boys get to clean it up! We then sat and enjoyed a well deserved cup of tea. Every time Nick made rice krispie squares with me at home, he would say, " Mrs Merkley, sticky mess!" Then start laughing.

Condolence From Andrea Snyder

Sat, 29 Mar 2014 11:41:24 EDT

To Joy's family: My deepest sympathies to all of you. I had the privilege of working with Joy at Rideau Vista. She was such an amazing woman. Always patient, kind, and caring. Joy will be missed by all who knew her. Peace be with you!

Condolence From Gerry & Sandy Redmond

Fri, 28 Mar 2014 18:51:42 EDT

Dear Leonard & Family: Was saddened to read of Joy's Passing. Our thoughts are with you. Gerry & Sandy.

Condolence From Debra Gard (Prevost)

Fri, 28 Mar 2014 13:56:20 EDT

Leonard & Family. Joy was a lovely person and I am honoured to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and May God Bless you and carry you through this difficult time. Debra

Condolence From Margaret Martin

Fri, 28 Mar 2014 10:20:24 EDT

I want to extend my sympathy to you, Leonard, and all the family. I will remember Joy for her loving and generous spirit, at all times. I am thinking of you all.

Condolence From Shirley (Wyse) O'Hare

Fri, 28 Mar 2014 09:15:01 EDT

Leonard, Nicole, Dwight, Derek and families, I am so sorry for your great loss. Joy certainly lived up to her name - always full of joy, smiling and laughing! She was a lovely person who I've known for years as a kind friend, tender-hearted co-worker, loving wife, generous mother and proud grandmother. She will be deeply missed. Cherish your memories and may you soon find peace, Shirley.

Condolence From Lorraine Porter

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 21:23:21 EDT

To Leonard and all of your family. Joy was one of the special people that life graces us with from time to time. I loved working with her and I was privileged to be her friend. She was one of the most positive people I have ever known. I will miss her. Wishing you all strength and courage in the days ahead. Myron and I extend our sincerest sympathies to you. Lorraine

Condolence From Janet Smith

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 17:31:08 EDT

Dear Leonard & Family: So very saddened to hear of Joy's passing. She was a wonderful lady with a smile that would light up a room. Joy and I worked together for numerous years at Rideau Vista and shared many laughs. She was a wonderful EA to work with and learn from. Joy will be sadly missed but always lovingly remembered. May your wonderful memories help you through this sad time. God Bless. Janet Smith

Condolence From Clarence Debbie Melissa Andrew Kim Brad Marcie & Billy

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 15:31:46 EDT

Dear Leonard & Family Sorry for your loss Joy was a amazing person and a awesome teacher are thoughts and prays are with you at this time.

Condolence From Bob & Marlene Ambler

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 15:16:10 EDT

Leonard & Family-- Sorry we cannot be with you at this difficult time, but our thoughts & prayers are with you. Remember the happy good times that will remain with you. Bob & Marlene

Condolence From Tom Vickers

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 15:02:14 EDT

Dear Leonard, Dwight, Nicole and Derek,It is difficult to find the words to express our deepest sympathy at the loss of Joy. My parents so often will remark what a wonderful person Joy was and how impressed they are with your whole family.I know I speak on behalf of my parents as well when I say Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Condolence From Robb Bowman

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 14:17:55 EDT

Dwight and families. I am so sorry to hear of Joy's passing. Hopefully the fond memories you have will make it a bit easier at this difficult time. Thinking of you all. Regards, The Bowman Family

Memorial Candle lit by kathleen carlson

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 13:38:48 EDT

Ken & Kay Carlson

Condolence From Dennis Amacher

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 11:39:24 EDT

Leonard; We were deeply saddened to hear of Joy's passing.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. God Bless. Diane and Denny

Condolence From Margie Norwood

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 07:57:19 EDT

Dearest Leonard & Family Joy will be missed by so many of us... Her lovely smile / her working in the garden / She truely brought JOY to many people... God Bless

Condolence From Wilhelmina Lacelle (Pynenburg)

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 07:44:40 EDT

Leonard and family, So sorry for your loss. Joy touched many lives in such a positive way.

Condolence From Ceri Lovell

Thu, 27 Mar 2014 06:44:50 EDT

To all of Joy's family, we want you to know how much Joy meant to us and to our son who she worked closely with. Joy was loving, kind and incredibly patient with Rhys. She treated him with the understanding that he so desperately needed. She was amazing, and a blessing in our lives. We will never forget her and the love and support she showed to our son. I will also never forget the laughs that we shared when Joy was an EA in my class. What great memories I have of that time. Please know that our thoughts are with you. Joy was an incredible woman who will we will always remember with fondness and incredible appreciation in our hearts. Ceri, Dan, Gwyneth & Rhys Lovell

Condolence From Scott Ferguson

Wed, 26 Mar 2014 20:41:05 EDT

Dear Leonard, Dwight, Nicole and Derek: Many years have passed since the days of shuttling us boys around,to what must have seemed like every single hockey arena in Ontario, Quebec and New York State. Please know that many of my fondest and most vivid hockey memories as a boy…include your wonderful family. Joy is in our minds and in our hearts tonight, as we send our thoughts and strength to each of you from Petawawa. Our deepest condolences, Scott, Amanda & Sammy Ferguson

Condolence From Rick Merkley & Elaine McSorley

Wed, 26 Mar 2014 13:06:22 EDT

Dear Leonard and family, our deepest sympathies go out to all of you in the loss of a loving Wife, Mother and Grandmother. Joy was a wonderful lady with an infectious smile and quick wit. She will be sadly missed but never forgotten. God Bless you all. Rick & Elaine

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